Tuesday, December 20, 2011

I'm Back!!!!

Well I havent been here in a while and boy do I have lots to share. Right now I'm dealing with the loss of a very dear friend so give me a few... I will be back.

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

The MOST logical answer as to why men CHEAT

My brother has a weekly posting on Facebook called, "The Ghetto News". Well today he posted a subject as to why men cheat.... now during his "news", in my opinion, he never stated WHY men cheat. He justed stated some obvious reasons as to why people like to be single. It really doesnt take a rocket scientist to figure out why men cheat. The answer is quite simple..... BECAUSE THEY WANT TO!!!! Now....let's discuss why I feel this way.

I dont necessarily feed into the "men cheat because the woman allows him to".... there really isnt any "allowing" going on here. He is a grown ass man just as she is a grown ass woman. It's all about what someone is willing to put up with.

A woman can roll out of bed looking like she just left a MAC counter.. and that's after she has fucked him unconscious. She can be the supreme woman in public and the ultimate porn star in bed. (She can put the best to shame). She can be well educated, make extremely good money, cook, clean, take care of the kids, etc.. Her body can make any Victoria's Secret model quit their day job and she can be well versed in sports...... all the while allowing a man to be a man as some of you like to put it. But plain and simple, HE WILL STILL CHEAT IF HE WANTS TO!!!!!

Now I'm not by far saying that all men cheat.... because in fact they dont. Let's put the shoe on the other foot...

A man could have a lazy ass sorry excuse for a woman. She doesnt cook, clean, work, take care of home or most importantly take care of herself. Putting a hat on suffices as combing her hair and she hasnt seen a razor in months. She can constantly belittle him and insult his manhood. He is obviously unhappy but still HE DOES NOT CHEAT! and YES I have known people in that situation.

It's all about choices. I hate it when people say "she made me cheat" NO THE HELL SHE DIDNT!! Be responsible for your own actions and emotions!!!!!

ALSO.... be very clear about your expectations in a relationship. If monogamy is what you want and he/she is not willing to give it.... WALK THE FUCK AWAY!!!!

Why women cheat.... coming soon